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Lifestyle | The Guardian USI love my partner - but my desire for queer intimacy has become all-consuming <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/apr/22/i-love-my-partner-but-my-desire-for-queer-intimacy-has-become-all-consuming" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/apr/22/i-love-my-partner-but-my-desire-for-queer-intimacy-has-become-all-consuming</a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Relationships</a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Lifeandstyle" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Lifeandstyle</a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Sex" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Sex</a>

🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄)I thought I might have to mace a dude in the parking lot a few minutes ago.My girlfriend and I were about to get in our car (after buying a bunch of ice cream for my cramps), and I overheard some guy talk-yelling. I scanned around and saw him across the lot, yelling into the driver's side of a small SUV. I watched for a few seconds, then decided to go make sure he wasn't cornering some woman.So my girlfriend and I walk over and stand a little ways from his vehicle, watching him heatedly accuse what was probably his girlfriend of cheating. He glanced at us a couple times, and I kept waiting for him to turn his anger my direction, but he dropped the keys in the car and stormed off.We walked over and checked on the woman, who smiled in that very 😅 sort of way, and told us she was okay—that "he's overdramatic" and they've "been through a lot together", then changed the subject by asking if we were from Seattle. She thanked us for checking in a couple more times and started walking in the guy's direction.This was obviously an abusive relationship and she was used to deflecting inquiries about it.I really wish I could have actually done something other than make sure he didn't escalate, but I know as soon as we left he was probably right back at her.I hope she gets out of there.<a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/Abuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Abuse</a> <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/Relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Relationships</a> <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/TakeAction" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#TakeAction</a>

Prism & PenIf you are in a long-term relationship when you start to transition, you are not transitioning alone. Your partner is, too. <a href="https://medium.com/prismnpen/ten-reasons-late-in-life-transgender-females-make-great-partners-7ce034b9fea2?sk=70e5d863cce241e7e54f2c1fa3d0eda3" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://medium.com/prismnpen/ten-reasons-late-in-life-transgender-females-make-great-partners-7ce034b9fea2?sk=70e5d863cce241e7e54f2c1fa3d0eda3</a><a href="https://stranger.social/tags/LGBTQ" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#LGBTQ</a> <a href="https://stranger.social/tags/Transgender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Transgender</a> <a href="https://stranger.social/tags/Transitioning" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Transitioning</a> <a href="https://stranger.social/tags/Relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Relationships</a> <a href="https://stranger.social/tags/Partners" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Partners</a>

SpicyBiCutiePie 🌶🇨🇦The #1 Exercise for Choosing the Right Partner | Therapists Tehrina & Joel🔍 Are you tired of guessing if someone is right for you? If so, THIS is the #1 relationship exercise we use as therapists to help people find the right partner—by identifying Must Haves & Deal Breakers.In this video, you’ll discover: ✅ Why most people ignore red flags (and how to stop) ✅ How to define your standards without feeling “too picky” ✅ A step-by-step guide to creating your Relationship Vision<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kgDGiWaVk-w" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kgDGiWaVk-w</a><a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#relationships</a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/partnership" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#partnership</a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/loving" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#loving</a>

StanceOfMindWhy women don’t want to date a ‘red pill man’: Warning as grim male trend erupts<a href="https://flip.it/rE--EK" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://flip.it/rE--EK</a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/Sex" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Sex</a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/Relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Relationships</a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/Dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Dating</a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/Misogyny" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Misogyny</a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/Masculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Masculinity</a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/RedPillMan" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#RedPillMan</a>

SpicyBiCutiePie 🌶🇨🇦The Key Habits for a Successful Relationship | Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Gottman What makes relationships thrive? In this video, we explore the essential habits that lead to *lasting love, deep connection, and mutual respect**. From **love mapping* and *turning toward bids for connection* to *managing conflict with a gentle startup* and **honoring each other’s dreams**, these science-backed insights can transform the way you and your partner connect. <a href="https://youtu.be/nQ5DYlbi9y8" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://youtu.be/nQ5DYlbi9y8</a><a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/Relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Relationships</a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/Marriage" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Marriage</a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/Communication" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Communication</a>

SpicyBiCutiePie 🌶🇨🇦How to find The One: John Gottman, Ph.D. & Julie Gottman, Ph.D. | mbg Podcast 55 minutes.“If you're dealing with an issue, don't describe your partner. Describe yourself, your feelings, and your needs," Julie says. In this episode, Julie, John, and Jason discuss how to know if your partner is long-term material.<a href="https://youtu.be/bkDQnslKzrE" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://youtu.be/bkDQnslKzrE</a><a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/psychology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#psychology</a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#relationships</a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/partnership" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#partnership</a>

The Open Buddhist University📰 How Reputation Does (And Does Not) Drive People to Punish Without Looking (A free, 11-page article from 2023)Tags: <a href="https://digipres.club/tags/Relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Relationships</a> <a href="https://digipres.club/tags/Ideology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Ideology</a> <a href="https://digipres.club/tags/SocialMedia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#SocialMedia</a> <a href="https://buddhistuniversity.net/content/articles/how-reputation-does-and-does-not-drive-punishment_jordan-jillian-et-al" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://buddhistuniversity.net/content/articles/how-reputation-does-and-does-not-drive-punishment_jordan-jillian-et-al</a>

Lifestyle | The Guardian USI told a big fib on a first date 30 years ago – catfishing is nothing new | Emma Beddington <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/apr/20/i-told-a-truly-weird-lie-on-a-first-date-30-years-ago-and-it-worked-out-surprisingly-well" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/apr/20/i-told-a-truly-weird-lie-on-a-first-date-30-years-ago-and-it-worked-out-surprisingly-well</a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Television" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Television</a>&radio <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Relationships</a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Onlinedating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Onlinedating</a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Lifeandstyle" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Lifeandstyle</a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/LoveIsland" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#LoveIsland</a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Dating</a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/E4" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#E4</a>

Lesbiykastrong✨ Love between women: a million shades of happiness. ✨ Love built on deep understanding, support, and shared dreams. True love knows no limits. What does love between women mean to you? Share your thoughts below! ❤️<a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/lesbian" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#lesbian</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/love" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#love</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/LGBTQ" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#LGBTQ</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#relationships</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/loveislove" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#loveislove</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/equality" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#equality</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Ukraine" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Ukraine</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/queerlove" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#queerlove</a>

Sonja T. Eubanks💙 Dating someone with depression? It's okay to need balance.You can:Hold space for their struggles without taking them on as your ownSet kind but firm boundaries (this is love, too)Protect your own mental health - it's not selfishFind the line between support and self-preservationFull guide for navigating this with care: bit.ly/4iqgmNE<a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/MentalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#MentalHealth</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Relationships</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ActuallyAutistic</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Neurodivergent</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SelfCare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#SelfCare</a>

Different ThanMy ex (technically still wife) and I have both commented on some of the commonalities of our partners for the last few years: liberal, in helping-type professions, and with a ridiculous amount more substance use experience and knowledge.It has occurred to me that this is just baseline and not so interesting, really:<ul><li>No way would we have dated anyone conservative at this point in our lives</li><li>We both have connections to helping professions</li><li>We were Mormon for the ~20 years of our marriage, so yeah, everyone has more substance use experience and knowledge than we do.</li></ul><a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/life" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#life</a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/story" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#story</a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/partners" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#partners</a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/marriage" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#marriage</a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/alcohol" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#alcohol</a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/drugs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#drugs</a> <a href="https://infosec.exchange/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#relationships</a>

SpicyBiCutiePie 🌶🇨🇦Ever feel like you're pouring all the friendship tea and getting an empty cup in return? 🤔 In episode 2 of Coffee With Crissy, we're diving into the tricky world of one-sided friendships. We'll chat about what that looks like, whether it's a sign you need to speak up, or if it's time for a friend circle refresh.  Grab your fave drink, get comfy, and let's get real about selfish friends. You deserve friendships that lift you up, and we're gonna talk about how to make that happen! ✨ Let's get into it! Total runtime: 2 min. 58 sec.<a href="https://youtu.be/ZsY6mbg9Z-0" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://youtu.be/ZsY6mbg9Z-0</a><a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/friendships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#friendships</a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/communications" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#communications</a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#relationships</a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/CoffeeWithCrissy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#CoffeeWithCrissy</a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/solopodcast" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#solopodcast</a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/independentlyproduced" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#independentlyproduced</a>

Adrian SegarWhat is the return on investment (ROI) from attending an event? Here's my definition: Conversations => Relationships => Value.<a href="https://www.conferencesthatwork.com/index.php/event-design/2011/04/conversations-relationships-1" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.conferencesthatwork.com/index.php/event-design/2011/04/conversations-relationships-1</a><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/meetings" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#meetings</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/EventDesign" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#EventDesign</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ROI" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ROI</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/conversation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#conversation</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#relationships</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/eventprofs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#eventprofs</a>

Lifestyle | The Guardian USThe moment I knew: the Veronicas were on stage when I spotted him apologetically squeezing past people <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/apr/20/the-moment-i-knew-the-veronicas-were-on-stage-when-i-spotted-him-apologetically-squeezing-past-people" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/apr/20/the-moment-i-knew-the-veronicas-were-on-stage-when-i-spotted-him-apologetically-squeezing-past-people</a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Australianlifestyle" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Australianlifestyle</a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Relationships</a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Lifeandstyle" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Lifeandstyle</a>

damian entwistleNo poem, today.Instead, this:<a href="https://www.gradesaver.com/call-me-by-your-name/study-guide/summary-part-3-the-san-clemente-syndrome" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.gradesaver.com/call-me-by-your-name/study-guide/summary-part-3-the-san-clemente-syndrome</a><a href="https://mastodon.org.uk/tags/AndreAciman" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#AndreAciman</a> <a href="https://mastodon.org.uk/tags/CallMeByYourName" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#CallMeByYourName</a> <a href="https://mastodon.org.uk/tags/rome" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#rome</a> <a href="https://mastodon.org.uk/tags/SanClemente" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#SanClemente</a> <a href="https://mastodon.org.uk/tags/love" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#love</a> <a href="https://mastodon.org.uk/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#relationships</a> <a href="https://mastodon.org.uk/tags/archaeology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#archaeology</a> <a href="https://mastodon.org.uk/tags/layers" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#layers</a>

Psychedelic InstituteIf you feel unsafe in your relationship, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800.799.SAFE (7233) or text “START” to 88788 <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/mentalhealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#mentalhealth</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/intimatepartnerviolence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#intimatepartnerviolence</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/anger" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#anger</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#relationships</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/domesticviolence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#domesticviolence</a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/postpartum" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#postpartum</a>

Lifestyle | The Guardian USThis is how we do it: ‘Being with him again is bliss. I’ve not had an orgasm during sex since we broke up in 1982’ <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/apr/19/this-is-how-we-do-it-not-had-orgasm-since-broke-up-1982" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/apr/19/this-is-how-we-do-it-not-had-orgasm-since-broke-up-1982</a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Relationships</a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Lifeandstyle" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Lifeandstyle</a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Sex" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Sex</a>

Lifestyle | The Guardian USBlind date: ‘She called me a dork, which is what every man dreams of’ <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/apr/19/blind-date-matt-kat" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/apr/19/blind-date-matt-kat</a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Relationships</a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Lifeandstyle" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Lifeandstyle</a> <a href="https://halo.nu/tags/Dating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Dating</a>

ABC FeedsThe Let Them Theory is going viral. What do psychologists make of it? By Kellie ScottThe Let Them Theory from motivational speaker and author Mel Robbins is about letting go of the need to control others and instead focusing on your reactions. We asked three psychologists what they make of it.<a href="https://www.abc.net.au/news/2025-04-19/what-psychologists-think-of-the-let-them-theory/105144954" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.abc.net.au/news/2025-04-19/what-psychologists-think-of-the-let-them-theory/105144954</a><a href="https://rssfeed.media/tags/Relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Relationships</a> <a href="https://rssfeed.media/tags/Psychology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#Psychology</a> <a href="https://rssfeed.media/tags/KellieScott" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#KellieScott</a>

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