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I've been doing more healing work to recover from being abusively #blindsided by a jealous woman who I have never even met but had attempted to psychologically #blackmail my companion, after faking being nice to me. I never expected to be #suckerpunched by a woman I've never even met in person. It shook me. It traumatized me. It was NOT OK.

Never ever defend #abusive people who have violated #boundaries multiple times & harmed multiple people, intentionally.

My partner is protecting himself, me & others from a #vindictive woman who has become nastier since being confronted for her abusive, #manipulative actions towards both of us. People like her become quite vicious & underhanded when they're called out for being #dishonest & #abusive. We aren't taking any chances. We are informing some folks, backing up work files, documenting everything/all communications from abusive person & blocking their access to work related documents.

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But for my former friend, she just thought that I was overreacting and that I was just low in confidence and testosterone.

She even set me up with one of her girlfriends while I was fighting #GroupParanoia, #demoralization, withstanding #mental #abuse while trying to save a business from going under.

Being in an #abusive cycle is what I'd call a mojo killer though, but it didn't matter. She viewed the whole situation as a "boys will be boys" situation, and that I just buckled from stress.

It's amazing once you do inventory with who your friends are, in regards to how they view you. I found out that pretty much most people I thought were my friends threw me under the bus for what happened in 2021 - when I was systematically demoralized and traumatized into #PTSD by an #abusive #narcissist under #abusiveworkingconditions.

One such person I trusted dearly and who I thought knew what was going on had basically also thrown me under the bus, and she did so because she's #misandrist.

In an interview by #Turnbull with #Bloomberg he said #Trump’s chaotic leadership style would benefit China, to the detriment of the US.

“President Xi will aim to be the exact opposite of Trump: where Trump is #chaotic, he will be consistent. Where Trump is #rude & #abusive, he’ll be respectful. Where Trump is #erratic, he will be consistent.”

Turnbull said the world was seeing an “undiluted” version of Trump in his second term. #auspol #USPol #RussianAsset #RESIST

theguardian.com/us-news/2025/m

The Guardian · Former Australian PM Malcolm Turnbull says leaders must stand up to bullies after being lashed by Donald TrumpBy Ben Doherty
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I see it like this because I both lived with and worked with two #abusive narcissists - all in the same year.

YEEEEEEEEEEY PTSD...

Saviour Complex/Messiah Complex with fuck you up, bro. It will - fuck - you - up. I am both guilty and a victim of that, and the only thing I can tell you is this.

Those who live so deeply in their delusion that they will actively target you, hurt you, discredit you, marginalize you, denigrate you, demoralize you, etc - only so that they can be "king of the hill".

#Musk is using the #tactics #abusive exes have used since the beginning of time.

cbsnews.com/amp/news/musk-fede

This feels like the #political equivalent of "Why do you make me do this to you?" Or "I hit you because I love you."

Fuck this guy. #Ignore his #threats. If they terminate as many #people as they want to, it's going to be one of the largest #classaction suits in history. Also not for nothing but it'll grind the federal #government to a halt and that might be a best case scenario right now.

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I hope, for #twitter s sake, that this isn't some retarded attempt at forcing me to remove the post that they suspended the account over. If that's the case, I bet #ASML wouldn't be happy with the renewed attention to this #abusive #shitshow.

Also, I can't mention them, because my X/Twitter account is (still) suspended. So, even if I would consider a transparent approach, I can't. 😛

#abuse #harassment #censorship #shadowban? #twitter "#failure"

I love when Roman #Catholic #maga say abusive things and you hold them accountable, then you are abusing them. Have 5 such people come in my #tiktok live tonight and do just that. They can say whatever hateful things they want, be as #racists, #bigoted, #abusive, and #misogynistic as they want, but the minute you say that is unacceptable, the minute you try to hold them accountable, they scream abuse. I am so tired of this and it is only 3 weeks into the apocalypse.