@DivineKestrel yep, 100%. How quickly people have forgotten the intense anti-gay culture across the US. In the late 90s through mid-2000s the F word (not fuck) was still in TONS of popular media. Hell, when my daughter was born *just 10 years ago* there was a lesbian couple in our birth class that were not allowed to legally marry, and the non-birth parent had to adopt the baby. In “liberal” California! I sometimes wish I was twenty and transitioning now, but rural northeast in the 90s? No way.
@caroline
"How quickly people have forgotten the intense anti-gay culture ..."
What infuriates me about that is the gays and lebesians who are so vocal against trans folks being represented in the Alphabet Mafia. When I see a story about excluding trans people from the LGBT rights movement it stings... a lot. It's because of trans women of color that the modern gay rights movement started and they have the ability to marry who they love.
@WrenArcher @griotspeak @caroline @DivineKestrel@chaosfem.tw
It seems like there are two very human responses to the experience of having been chronically bullied, marginalized, threatened, and/or harmed and then coming into relative power and safety. One is to say “I’m going to fight to make sure nobody else experiences what I experienced.” The other is “Now it’s my turn.”